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  •   Maria
  •   United Kingdom
  •   Female
  •   46 years old
  •   Jehovah's Witnesses
Maria: Losing Family and Community for Wanting a Normal Life

Maria: Losing Family and Community for Wanting a Normal Life

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  •   Maria
  •   United Kingdom
  •   Female
  •   46 years old
  •   Jehovah's Witnesses

I was born into Jehovah’s Witnesses (JWs), with both of my parents being members. My mum’s parents were lifelong Witnesses, and my dad was a convert [someone who joined the religion later in life]. I left at the age of 16 but avoided being "dunked", so my parents didn’t shun me. However, the beliefs still put a wedge between me and my mum.

Over the years, she has said very mean things to me and has rarely told me she loves me. I lost all my JW friends and the entire community I grew up with, as I was now seen as "bad association". I know of people in the congregation who have unalived themselves because of the devastating effects of shunning.
It’s a massive, heartbreaking problem.

We just want to have normal family relationships—the kind of basic human connection that should never be taken away.

Stop Mandated Shunning is part of the Open Minds Foundation, a registered 501(c)(3) charity in the USA

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