I never imagined that joining a religion could cost me my family. When I became a Jehovah’s Witness, I believed I was doing the right thing—following the truth, serving God. But I didn’t realize the price I would pay.
At first, I was encouraged to distance myself from my old friends and family because they didn’t share the same faith. It was subtle at first, but eventually, I became isolated, with only the congregation as my support system. But that support was conditional. As long as I obeyed, I belonged. The moment I started questioning things, everything changed.
One of the hardest parts was how this religion divided my home. My wife and kids still celebrated holidays, but I no longer did. As the head of the family, my refusal to participate caused tension, resentment, and ultimately, separation. Instead of strengthening my family, this religion tore us apart.
The teachings were clear: if you don’t fully obey, you are no longer a part of God’s people. You become like everyone else—an outsider, someone to be shunned. The very people who once welcomed me now treated me as if I didn’t exist. My entire social structure, built within the congregation, was demolished.
I lost everything—first my old friends and family, then the new ones I thought would always be there. When I finally spoke up and stood my ground, I was abandoned. The isolation was unbearable. I found myself struggling with loneliness, emptiness, and addiction, trying to fill the void left behind.
Up to this day, I battle with alcohol. Some days are harder than others. But I share my story because I know I’m not alone. Others have gone through this, too. Jehovah’s Witnesses promise love and community, but only if you follow their rules without question. The moment you think for yourself, they take everything from you.
No one should have to choose between their faith and their family. No one should be forced into loneliness simply for standing up for what they believe is right. If you are experiencing something similar, know that you are not alone. There is life beyond this. There is hope.