Hilde Langvann

Victims of Mandated Shunning are Fighting for Change

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As we count down to the pivotal appeal trial in Oslo this February, attention is drawn not only to the victims who will testify but also to the dedicated advocates fighting for change. One such advocate is Hilde Langvann, the leader of Hjelpekilden, an organization devoted to helping individuals recover from the psychological trauma of life in high-control religious groups, including Jehovah’s Witnesses.

Hilde, who was herself part of Jehovah’s Witnesses for several years as an adult, has been instrumental in supporting ex-members seeking to rebuild their lives. Through Hjelpekilden, she has helped countless individuals grappling with the devastating fallout of leaving these communities—loss of social networks, fear of rejection, and the psychological scars of coercion and control. Notably, one-third of those who reach out to Hjelpekilden are former Jehovah’s Witnesses, highlighting the widespread impact of these exclusion practices.

Testifying for the Vulnerable

Hilde has testified in both previous court trials on behalf of Hjelpekilden, sharing her expertise on post cult trauma and the mental health challenges faced by those who leave high-control groups. Drawing on years of experience working with former members, Hilde highlighted the recurring patterns of psychological distress, social isolation, and fear faced by those who break away.

Many individuals approach Hjelpekilden because they fear the consequences of leaving, especially the complete loss of their social connections. “It’s not just about what they’re allowed to do,” Hilde explains, “but about what they’re allowed to think.” This emphasizes the profound internal struggle many face, having grown up in an environment where even thoughts were controlled by the group.

Hilde’s testimony during these trials has played a vital role in providing insight into the long-term effects of mandated shunning. Her work underscores that this isn’t simply a personal issue for those involved it’s a societal problem with real mental health consequences, including suicidal thoughts and severe psychological trauma among many who leave.

Hilde’s Hopes for Change

Looking ahead to the February trial, Hilde remains optimistic that it could signal the start of a cultural shift. “This case sends important signals to religious communities that coercion and threats are no longer accepted,” she says. “We hope that in the long term this can contribute to a cultural change within these communities, which will ensure a safer upbringing for children.”

Her involvement goes beyond support and advocacy—Hilde has also been part of the legislative process in Norway, working to shape laws that protect individuals from coercive religious practices. She believes that legal actions, such as this upcoming trial, are essential in promoting accountability and fostering cultural transformation within religious communities.

The Bigger Picture

The consequences of breaking away from high-control groups are far-reaching. Many individuals who reach out to Hjelpekilden struggle not only with the loss of family and friends but also with deep-seated fears instilled by the group, including fears of doomsday or eternal punishment. Some are unable to leave due to these fears, while others, having left, find themselves isolated and overwhelmed.

Hilde’s work sheds light on the plight of vulnerable youth who grow up in these environments, often facing mental health challenges from an early age. These children, subjected to strict rules and exclusion practices, experience a unique form of coercion that impacts their mental well-being. Hjelpekilden has even faced difficulties when reaching out to authorities, such as the police, in cases involving minors.

How You Can Help

This case is more than a legal battle—it’s about standing up for those who have been marginalized and silenced for far too long. You can help by:

Attending the trial in Oslo. Show your support by being present in court during the critical dates of February 7 and 10. Your presence sends a powerful message to the victims and the court that they are not alone and that their courage matters.

Sharing your story. If you’ve experienced similar challenges or have been affected by mandated shunning, share your story. Your voice can help others realize that they are not alone and that there is a supportive community ready to stand with them.

Spreading the word. Help raise awareness about the trial and the broader issue of mandated shunning. Share articles and updates on social media and with your network to keep the conversation going.

Hilde Langvann and her team at Hjelpekilden have dedicated themselves to providing support and hope to those recovering from life in coercive groups. Visit Hjelpekilden.org to learn more about their work. Their efforts, combined with those of Stop Mandated Shunning, aim to create a world where coercive religious practices are no longer tolerated.

As Hilde puts it, “We hope this trial will be the start of a much-needed cultural change.” Let’s stand with her—and with the brave individuals testifying in Oslo—in the fight to stop mandated shunning. Together, we can make a difference.